The internet is a fantastic way to keep in touch with friends. It’s easy, convenient and fun. But is it totally safe?
The answer is (like with most things in life): there are risks.
The nature of the internet means that some of the risks have pretty serious consequences. For example, we’ve all heard of stories where a private photo has ended up in the public domain.
This and other negative stuff can happen to anybody, which is why it’s important to know if what you’re doing in cyberspace is risky.
Risky stuff
Does any of the following sound like you? If so, you might be putting yourself at risk on the net. Read on - we’ll show you some ways to protect yourself in a moment.
- You have a detailed online profile that anyone can see, including info like your mobile number, home address and photos
- You’ve told secrets to someone online (even to friends)
- You use chat rooms to talk to people you’ve never met
- You’ve sent potentially embarrassing or nude photos of yourself to someone else
- You get into arguments with other users - these could range from passionate discussions to full-on flame wars
- You don’t moderate the comments on your blog
- Other people know your password
- You use a password that is easy to guess, such as your pet's name, football team or favourite band
Staying safe
If your cyber-world matches the one above, you might be setting yourself up for trouble. For example:
- Personal photos can end up being public photos
- Arguments can turn into fully blown flame wars
- Private info can be used against you, illegally
The following is some practical advice for staying safe online:
- Protect your private info - Only give your mobile phone number, email address and website details to people you can trust, and never share your password
- Photos - Think twice before sending or posting a photo of yourself (remember, once it’s out there you can’t take it back)
- Chatting to strangers - It’s not necessarily bad to chat to strangers online, but be aware they might not be who they say they are
- Moderate comments - If you’ve got a blog, make sure you moderate comments
- Arguments - If an argument is turning into a flame war, let it go; online feuds often turn into something much worse, so don’t do anything to encourage them
- Password security - Make sure your password is at least eight characters long, a mix of letters and numbers and not the name of your favourite band, pet or football team
Helpful links
The Wood Verdict
Tom Wood’s blog on cyber bullying is based on first-hand experience. Check out his Complete Guide to Stopping Cyber Bullying.
Cybersmart
Information on cyber bullying for parents and teachers, as well as young people.
Bullying. No way!
An informative site put together by Australian school communities.
Kids Helpline - 1800 55 1800
Kids Help Line is a free, confidential and anonymous telephone and online counselling service for young people.
Reach Out
Informative page on cyber bullying aimed at a youth audience.
